Feeling Lost? How to Reconnect with Your Purpose and Identity
- Nan Eshun
- Jul 6
- 2 min read

Have you ever glanced in the mirror and wondered, “Who am I, really?” or “What’s my true purpose in life?” If so, you’re in good company—and there’s nothing wrong with you.
At various points in our lives, we all face periods when the road ahead seems foggy. Perhaps you've experienced a major life change: a new job, the end of a relationship, becoming a parent, or simply waking up to realize that the life you’re leading doesn’t feel genuinely yours.
In these moments, essential questions begin to emerge:
Why do I no longer feel fulfilled?
What is the purpose behind all this?
Who am I beyond my roles and obligations?
While these questions can be uncomfortable, they are also transformative.
Why We Lose Sight of Ourselves
In our fast-paced modern lives, we accumulate labels—mother, professional, caretaker, achiever—until our true selves are concealed beneath societal expectations. Over time, our sense of identity becomes intertwined with external demands, and our inner voice becomes subdued.
We may appear successful on the outside, yet feel disconnected within. This disconnection often signals a need to pause, reflect, and reconnect with ourselves.
Rediscovering Purpose: It Starts Within
The encouraging news? You don’t need to have all the answers immediately. What’s essential is your willingness to ask the right questions:
What do I cherish most at this stage of my life?
What brings me joy, even in fleeting moments?
What activities allow me to feel most like myself?
By delving into these questions within a supportive environment, we can shed the layers of “shoulds” and rediscover our authentic selves.
Identity Isn’t Static—It Evolves
One of the greatest misconceptions is that our purpose is a fixed endpoint or job title. In reality, it evolves alongside us. Purpose isn’t something to be found—it’s something to be created. It begins with aligning your life with your values, strengths, and personal truths.
You may not be able to quit your job or completely overhaul your life overnight—but you can start making small, authentic changes. You have the power to live more intentionally and mindfully.
Join the Conversation
If you’re ready to delve into your identity and reconnect with your purpose in a safe, guided environment, consider participating in our upcoming group workshop:“Align Within: Rediscovering Your Purpose & Identity.”
This session aims to help you:
Uncover the values that genuinely resonate with you
Reflect on life transitions and shifts in identity
Create a personal vision that aligns with your true self
Connect with others facing similar questions
You are not lost—you are in the process of becoming.
Let’s embark on this journey together.
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